Want to Get Healthier but Not Sure Where to Start?
Simple ways to make sense of food, fitness and everyday choices — without another complicated plan.
Start with your own goal, notice what you already do, choose movement that suits you and make everyday choices easier when routines change. You do not need to change everything at once.
You want to lose some weight, get fitter, build strength or simply feel healthier.
But where do you begin? Join a gym? Start a diet? Count calories? Try intermittent fasting? Follow an exercise programme you've seen online?
Everyone seems to have an opinion, and it's difficult to know which advice is right for you.
Perhaps you've tried a few things already. Some worked for a while, others didn't, and now you're wondering what to try next.
And then there's everyday life. Busy working weeks, family commitments, holidays, meals out. Perhaps it's cold and dark outside, you're spending more time indoors, and your usual routine has gone out of the window.
It's easy to think you need to change everything to make progress.
But what if the best place to start isn’t doing more — it’s understanding what you actually need?
Here are four questions worth asking yourself.
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What are you hoping to achieve?Do you need a diet plan?Do you need a gym?When routines changeWhere should you start?Ask David a questionPersonal coachingAll learning guides1. What are you hoping to achieve — and does your plan match that goal?
Imagine you've decided to lose some body fat, so you join a gym and promise yourself you'll go five times a week.
There's nothing wrong with joining a gym. But is that the best starting point for your goal?
If losing body fat is your priority, what and how much you eat will play an important part. Exercise is valuable for your health, fitness and maintaining muscle, but gym attendance alone doesn't guarantee weight loss.
Now imagine someone who wants to get stronger but decides to walk every day.
Walking is excellent for your health, but building strength generally requires challenging your muscles through some form of resistance exercise.
Or perhaps your main goal is to feel less breathless when climbing stairs or walking uphill. Gradually improving your cardiovascular fitness might be a more useful focus.
You don't need to know every answer yet. But getting clear about what you want is a much better starting point than copying someone else's routine simply because it worked for them.
2. Do you need a diet plan — or a better understanding of what you're eating?
Low-carb, low-fat, intermittent fasting, calorie counting, meal replacements. There's always another diet being recommended.
And if you're struggling with your weight, it's tempting to believe that finding the right diet will finally solve everything.
But before changing what you eat, have you looked closely at what you're already doing?
Perhaps you eat very little during a busy working day, then arrive home so hungry that you spend the evening grazing. Maybe you automatically reach for a biscuit whenever you make a cup of tea.
Or perhaps your meals are fairly balanced, but the drinks, snacks and little extras throughout the day add up to more than you realise.
None of this means you're doing something wrong. It simply means there might be things worth noticing.
Are you genuinely hungry? Eating because something is there? Or reaching for food because it's what you normally do at that time?
You might spot something you hadn't really thought about before. And that's useful information.
Before deciding what to change, it helps to understand what's actually happening.
3. Do you actually need to join a gym to get fitter?
You've decided you'd like to exercise more. But perhaps the thought of walking into a busy gym fills you with dread.
You worry that everyone else knows what they're doing, that people will be watching you, or that you're simply not fit enough to be there. Or maybe it's nothing to do with confidence. You just don't enjoy gyms.
A gym is somewhere you can exercise. It isn't somewhere you have to exercise.
Walking, swimming, cycling, group classes, home workouts and outdoor activities can all help improve fitness. And you don't necessarily need expensive equipment.
Want to build strength? Resistance bands, dumbbells and suitable bodyweight exercises can all be useful.
Want to improve your stamina? Walking at a pace that challenges you a little, and gradually building from there, could be a good starting point.
Want to be more active but struggle to find the time? Perhaps a short session at home fits your life better than travelling to a gym.
See how you get on before committing to anything. You don't have to enjoy the gym to enjoy being active.
4. What happens when your normal routine goes out of the window?
You're away on holiday, visiting family or enjoying a few days off. There are more meals out, snacks while watching films, later nights and perhaps less movement than usual.
Or it's simply winter. It's dark when you finish work, the weather is miserable, and the sofa looks particularly inviting. Sound familiar?
It's easy to feel you've gone off track. But enjoying a celebration, relaxing for an afternoon or missing a workout doesn't mean everything you've done before has been wasted.
And you don't need to punish yourself for eating more than usual. Sometimes, rather than relying on willpower, it helps to make a healthier choice a little easier.
None of these ideas requires a new diet, special equipment or a complete change of lifestyle. They're simply ways of making things a little easier when life isn't following its usual pattern.
So, where should you start?
You don't need to find the perfect diet, join the most expensive gym or follow somebody else's routine.
Start by understanding what you'd actually like to achieve. Take a closer look at what you're already doing. Think about what would realistically fit around your work, family and everyday life.
And remember, enjoying food, taking time to relax and looking after your health don't have to be competing priorities.
You don't have to change everything. You need to work out what makes sense for you.
Perhaps you've recognised yourself in a few of these situations. If you're unsure where to focus your efforts, or you've tried different approaches that haven't suited you, personal coaching can help.
We can look at your goals, your everyday habits and the things you're finding difficult, then work towards a practical approach that suits your life, with guidance and adjustments along the way. You don't need to have the answers before getting in touch.
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Sources and further reading
Selected research informing this guide:
- WHO physical activity guidelines — aerobic and muscle-strengthening activity (2020)
- Wendy Wood and David Neal — how habits respond to everyday cues (2007)
This guide is general educational information, not individual medical advice. External sources open in a new tab.